Seduction is an art form, it’s true. And there are a myriad of websites out there happy to sell you classes and packaged techniques they claim guarantee you success with women, whether you’re looking for a long term relationship or just trying to get a girl into bed.
Don’t get me wrong, some of these courses are really good. Take the Girlfriend Activation System (GFAS), for example, which I discuss again down below. Read the review at the following link if you want all the details: http://www.stabilitypact.org/girlfriend-activation-system-review-be-her-obvious-choice/
The better courses, like GFAS, focus more on helping you become the type of man who naturally attracts women, rather than filling your head with canned pick-up lines, manipulation tactics, and that sort of nonsense.
The reality is, though there do exist some general rules that can be usefully employed in seducing the girl you want (whoever she may be), much of seduction has to do with your confidence, your personal style, and remaining true to yourself.
If you’re looking to easily seduce any woman you want, you can’t fake it. Being who you really are is one of the most important things to keep in mind, but sometimes it can take a while to find out who “you” really is.
So let’s briefly discuss just a few helpful guidelines to bear in mind as you chase the object of your affection.
1. Be Confident In Yourself And What You Bring To The Table
As mentioned previously, if you want to easily seduce women, you can’t fake it and pretend to be someone you’re not. Most women see right through that.
If you attempt to feign a persona, you’re doomed to failure from the get-go. It will come off as fake, clumsy, fumbling, insincere, and usually comes across as just a transparent attempt to get laid.
One of the most appealing qualities in a man is internal confidence. This, faster than anything else, will enable you to easily seduce any woman you want. Stay true to yourself as you pursue your woman.
If you’re a geek, so be it. If you’re a nerd, so be it. Own it, and be comfortable in your own skin. Women don’t care about looks, money, and all that stuff when a man has confidence to boot.
2. You Want Her, But You Don’t Need Her
I know this sounds counterintuitive, but when you’re actively pursuing a woman, it’s important to be flirtatious, to be interested when you’re with her, and to live your own life (and allow the woman to live hers) when you’re apart.
It goes to that old saying: absence makes the heart grow fonder. And, remember, neediness is the #1 killer of attraction, so you won’t seduce a woman by constantly texting her, calling her, or following her around like a lost puppy.
Women like men with drive and ambition: men who overcome obstacles, make their own way, live life by their own rules, and know no bounds to their potential. To seduce her, you need the mindset that you want her, but you don’t need her.
3. Break Through Her Walls
I’m not just talking about getting her to open up, or listening to her attentively (though both of those things go a long way towards getting her interested in taking things further). I’m talking about literally invading her personal space (in a seductive way) when you’re with her.
Get close to her. Let her know through touch and body language that you want to be closer to her body. Trust me. She will pick up on it.
There is a strange thing that happens psychologically when an individual’s comfort zone is penetrated. The mental walls start to come down.
As the physical barriers are breached, her thoughts will turn towards intimacy and the bedroom, and maybe even a lasting relationship if that’s what you’re both after.
This won’t happen immediately, and a big part of seduction is learning how to escalate the relationship at the right time. That moment when she’s ready for you to make your move. Miss it or go too early and you kill the attraction. Get it right, and she can become obsessed right then and there.
How do you get this part of your dating life handled? Video 5 of the Girlfriend Activation System, titled “Nick Sparks On Sexuality”, is an excellent place to start if you want to learn how to go from friendly to seductive with a girl, without coming across as creepy, inappropriate, or overly aggressive.
You really can’t go wrong with Nick’s stuff! Learn it. Use it. And seduce the woman you want!